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5 Simple Steps: Kids Need Help


5 Simple Steps: Kids Need Help


Five Steps to Help See Your Children Through the Divorce


By DIVORCE360.COM STAFF

    Almost 60 percent of the people surveyed in a July 2007 Pew Research Center report said divorce is better than an unhappy marriage. Two -thirds of the 2,020 people agreed it's better for children. If you're ending your marriage, here's how you can help your kids through it.   

1. Put the kids first.
Remember that your kids come first. Put your needs aside to help them through the divorce the best they can.


2. Your kids can be selfish.
Be prepared that your kids are more interested in what's going on with them than what's happening to you.

3. Keep them away from court.
If you're going to court or mediation, leave your kids with their grandparents or someone you trust. They don't need to be exposed to the legal workings of your breakup.
  
4. Be vigilant.
Watch for sudden emotional and behavioral changes. If your child stops eating or suddenly flunks classes, these are signs that he isn't coping with the divorce.
 
5. Get counseling.
You and your kids may need to talk with a professional to help you through.
 

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