Mrs. Detective: Is My Spouse Cheating?

I am giving you advice as a private investigator and as someone who has been through it. Take a deep breath. Look at what you have going for you, and yes, each of you has so much going for you. You had the intelligence to check out this Web site. If you doubt yourself, it is only because of what you are going through.

Do not let him or her know you suspect. Do this right. Protect yourself, your assets and your dignity. If you think that your spouse is cheating on you, get all the facts, so you do not blow it if you are going to go to court. We have seen it happen, and you end up with nothing. Don’t tip your hand.

Hire a private investigator, get the facts that you can present in court. One way or the other you will put your mind at ease. You will get the facts that you need to for court or you will find out that he or she is faithful and just going through some wacky phase. Nine times out of 10, he is not going through a phase. He is cheating. 

If you discuss a case with a private investigator, it is totally confidential. Your spouse will never know you hired us and will never know they were followed. You just need to realize that unfortunately, so many men and woman do cheat. If you go to court with videotape of your spouse and the other person together and a written report from a private investigator, then you will walk away with your fair share. 

If you think your spouse is cheating, it is probably not your imagination. Don’t confront them or they will become cautious and ruin your chance of getting the evidence that you will need.  The best way to heal is to protect yourself and get the closure you need. If you are going through this, call us and we will listen and help you plan your best move. We won’t push you into a divorce; we will just help you gather the facts, in case it does happen.  

Also remember, there is hope…I found the light at the end of the tunnel. To finish my story, I met my present husband a year after my divorce, and we fell instantly in love. I got my private investigator license, and we became Mr. and Mrs. Detective. 

Click here for more stories on infidelity and related topics. Mrs. Detective works in the Northeast as a private investigator with mainly family law cases.