divorce360.com provides help, advice and community for people
contemplating, going through or recovering from divorce and the issues around it,
including separation, divorce laws, spousal support and emotional issues.

causes-of-divorce  :: addiction
Print
Email

5 Simple Steps: Alcoholism


5 Simple Steps: Alcoholism


Addiction: How to Help Yourself if Your Spouse's Drinking Affects your Marriage


By DIVORCE360.COM STAFF

    Like other addictions, alcoholism can lead to divorce. Here are tips on how to get help for yourself and spouse:

1. No excuses.
Don't make excuses or cover up for the alcoholic. He or she needs to learn the consequences of drinking.



2. Step in.
Intervene with family and friends after an incident when your spouse is sober and calm.

3. Talk about your concerns.
Tell him or her why the drinking worries you. Tell him or her how it's caused problems with family, friends, work and, most importantly, your marriage.

4. Talk about the consequences.
Tell your spouse they need help and if they don't seek it, tell him or her what you plan to do. Don't tell your spouse something you aren't going to act on. If you say you're going to file for divorce, mean it and do it. Otherwise don't bring it up.

5. Find help.
If your spouse admits he or she has a problem and wants help, help get it. Find out about local Alcoholics Anonymous meetings or counseling that may be offered through your employer, church or a community group.


MORE FROM DIVORCE360

Click here to read the entire article about how to help yourself if your spouse is an alcoholic.








divorce New this week::

Is Daddy Leaving Because of Me? - For Men: What To Say To Your Kids

 

The Four Secrets Men Keep - You Might Not Like Number 4, But You Need To Get Over It

 

Are You The Other Woman? - 10 Reasons Why You Need To Stop Now

 
divorce Community::
popular blogs
Is the way iam reacting normal???Ever since my husband cheated
on me i have been crying almost every day. I feel so worthless and i am so...read more 

What will be my breaking point?
What will be my breaking point?   When will I say ENOUGH is ENOUGH. Look I am...read more 

What a crazy 2 years
Well it's been a crazy 2 years.  I felt this overwhelming feeling of an...read more 

get/give answers
Email Cheating husband refuses divorce
A variety of email affairs/flirtations between my husband and several other...Read Answers/share yours 

New wife taking to much control
My first wife cheated on me and I divorced her in February of 08. We had only...Read Answers/share yours 

what the hell to do
. Wow,  taking care of 4 children I cannot afford a divorce. Look I love my...Read Answers/share yours 

expert Q&As
Faith Therapy : Does a Separation Work?
My Husband and I Are Having Trouble. Is It a Good Idea for Us to Separate?...read more 

Stress Relief: Tips to Help after Separation
Mental Health: Overwhelmed by Changes in Household Routine. What Should I do?...read more 

About Law: Do Divorce Kits Work?
Legal: What You Should Consider When You Think About Divorcing Using a Kit...read more 


expand information center
divorce360.com's ecards
ADVERTISING PARTNERS
divorce focused content ::
divorce most popular ::
1. When Is a Marriage Worth Saving?
10 Things to Think About When Considering Whether to Stick with a Relationship

2. 8 Things No One Ever Tells You about Divorce
Number Three May Surprise You

3. Divorcing? 15 Costly Financial Mistakes
Settlements: 15 Critical Financial Mistakes Often Made in the Heat of Divorce

4. Beginning Checklist: Planning to File for Divorce
12 Steps to Consider if You or Your Partner Have Decided to File for Divorce

5. Are You Ready For Divorce?
Three Key Questions You Must Ask Yourself