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including separation, divorce laws, spousal support and emotional issues.

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From getting marriage therapy to considering finances, what to consider if you decide to divorce.

Special Feature - Infidelity

From proving an affair to if you should leave, help dealing with marital infidelity.

LEGAL

Tips to Consider when Separating
Divorce Law: What Does Divorce Cost?
About Law: Cost of Alimony
Legal Notes: Who Gets the Children?
About Law: Child Support Cost

FINANCIAL

Women's Finances: Home Sales
What's Dependent Spouse Syndrome?
Divorce Law: Job before Divorce
Divorcing? 15 Costly Mistakes
Documents You Will Need

EMOTIONAL

Why Do People Decide to Leave?
After the Affair, Should You Go?
When Is a Marriage Worth Saving?
Why Do you Stay in a Bad Marriage?
Talking with Spouse about Divorce

CHILDREN

Unhappy Marriage, Unhappy Kids?
What Do I Tell the Kids?
Schoolwork and Divorce
KidTalk: Deciding Where to Live
5 Signs your Child Needs Help

Jealousy after the Divorce?

What Faith Divorces Most?

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4 Tips to Save your Marriage
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Think Your Spouse Is Controlling?

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Where to start
Our Checklists are a great place to start. Or, get a quick review of your state's divorce laws with our
State-by-state divorce laws.

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:: CHECKLISTS / CALCS

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:: GLOSSARY A-Z

definitions from "alimony" to "writ of execution"

:: STATE RESOURCES

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Sustained abuse of any kind must be stopped. If you are a victim, it is up to you to take the first step. This might involve counseling, but only if your husband goes willingly, and cooperates fully in all strategies and actions aimed at protecting you and your children. Often a realistic program of rehabilitation will involve a period of separatio...

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