sorry cont: She used to role play on MYSPACE and would Cyber and say well its like acting. But she now says you cant prove it. She is now saying you left me Penniless I gave her 700.00 a month Not court ordered. And She left a free home on base stole my car put me in a Bankruptcy. It goes on and on . I only have by kids and my girlfriend for a reality check because when she comes over its like a Rip in Reality so surreal and crazy. I feel like I am going crazy my self . No one will give me help like protection orders because women don't hurt men type of thing and Mental abuse is not something to be scared of at least here in Texas. Looking into the cost of a Visitation place so i don't have to deal with her every weekend . I am also a bit afraid of doing too much as she has said she was going to "have God get rid of my girlfriend " and destroy my career. Thank you all for all your suggestions and having a place to Vent.

She came over Sunday for 2 hours and told me she was now joining the Army and was demanding i give her joint custody. I did as you said she started bringing up her old arguments and I shut her down right away. She is now saying i don't trust your girlfriend around the kids.She is going to snap when she finds out that we are married. (we are getting married soon) How she can handle the Army is a mystery to me as she is Mentally ill. My 10 year old is now calling her Crazy and is beginning to talk of the abuse that the 2 boys had when she kidnapped them. Leaving them with people that used belts with studs on them to "spank" them with being timed to eat (5 min to eat). They have on 2 occasions that i know of been around to hear her say she was going to kill herself. My boys have lived from couch to couch and in a 1 room small trailer . I know she has lived in filth as that is way i had to come home a month early from Iraq Army social services was going to take them away for Neglect . They are afraid to be with her alone with out someone. They ask is Mommy Stalking us again??? I just want to get enough money to have all parental rights taken from her. At least until she is on medication and has had intensive counseling.. I have seen other comments from people on other sites about how Soldiers have to leave careers to be able to afford an Attorney and get the help they need to get the kids away from an Mentally Ill spouse. In the Army anyway they just try to cover their butts they don't care about you or your kids .The wife has all the rights. My girlfriend is thinking that she mentally abused them and possibly physically because my oldest is always saying"I am a trouble maker and a bad kid" I pray this is not true. You have realize that she left me for a movie star and would get signals from him on the TV. When she found out it really as not him on the internet she began a relationship with some one pretending to be a char on tv. and would cry when that char got shot or hurt in the show. She used to role play on MYSPACE and wou