Okay so when do the stupid mean passive aggressive comments stop. I have headed the advice of many of you who tell me that the best way to win is not to play. I brought the kids to him last weekend (yes I am stupid enough to drive from AR to IL, but I feel the kids need to see their dad). After I drop them off and drive away I get a scathing e-mail about....get this...my license plate!! Seriously can't you find something better to harp on? I mean why is he watching me drive away when he has the kids? Why is he e-mailing me when he should be spending time with the kids? It gets old...it has been almost a year and I was wondering if you knew when this will stop? Will he ever process? He even called to tell me that the plates offended him. Okay so they say DO OVER, but it is my car and my plates and I do feel like a get a second chance. But none of these things are about him, I told him that, but he says that I did it to get to him. I live in another state for crying out loud, how exactly was it about him? UGH....

I am glad I could help, even though it's just words. You are not alone in all this. Keep posting, this is a great site for support.

hello twokidsmum u r going thr the same thing my daughter is right as i type to u but the sad thing of her case was she lost custody of her 2 daughter there ages 3 5 its a big mess i worry every day about my daughter its so hard for her she was mental abuse and controlled for 14 years of her life with the x husband and he still is doing it