Morning Tabasco I read your reply and your views on cheating which were illuminating. While it is true thar some woman will cheat because of issues in their marriage, I would warn you that there are predators out there who take advantage of these issues, thus becoming what you think you are looking for and then end up in an affair. If your ead my blogs and posts you will understand where I am coming from ... to me communication is the key ... if my stbx had communicated her issues with me instead of letting a married man become her confidant we woudl still be married. If on the other hand you cannot resolve your differences, rather get a divorce before cheating.