Hello - no, there is no section just for men on here - you post and you get the advice you get - male and female perspectives, or you can serach out men on here and ask them question on their walls. Understand something though, the "logic" you might think is rediculous just due to the fact it is a woman's standpoint - doesn't necessarily make them wrong. If you are looking for men just to ensure they agree with you on your thought process, don't be so sure you will get that...and don't be so sure that is what you need as well.

I too am making plans. They shouldn't be without her knowledge, but she's chosen to live in denial about the whole thing and pretend it doesn't exist. So unfortunately, she'll be "surprised" this summer, even though I told her two years ago I wanted to leave, and ten years ago it was over. Good luck. Maybe you and I can share tips as we progress.

Hi, SWU. Welcome to D360. Glad to see you here. This is a great place to find advice, help, and support. You can relax here; you're among friends. If there's anything I can do to help you find your way around, just drop me a line.