Hi, I am going down momof4illinois friends list and asking everyone if they have heard anything from her. There is a concern if she is okay or not. If you have heard from her or about her, can you let others know. People on d360 are very concern. Thanks, chris

How is everything going? I hope you're taking care of you. If you need rest, make sure you get it.

Document everything. That's the only way. You have to keep records of days, times, he calls or says this that are abusive to you. Documentation, documentation, documentation. Keep a journal of your daughter's behavior, things she does and says that show what an impact he's had on her; as far as the male roommate goes, he can use that against you. I'd be careful on that one. It becomes an issue of the safety of your daughter and if he can say things like you don't know this man you're living with or if this man, God forbids, has ANY sort of criminal background (whether it's a misdemeanor or a speeding ticket), he can use it. Be sure you can substantiate that your daughter is in a safe environment and be sure that your roommate's background is CRYSTAL CLEAR. Without being a lawyer, those are a few things I can suggest. Hope all is well today!