Hi, welcome to d360. Let me know if I can help with anything at all. I thought I’d send this quicky ‘how-to-get-started’ note and leave it on your wall. I hope it helps you. Here’s what I usually do here. Everyday I 1) log on to the site. Simply type in your email and password to get started, then I come here, to the MyStuff/Profile page so I can see if anyone has answered my blog or question. If they have, I click on it and answer them back. 2) then I check the ‘scroll’..that’s the stuff at the top of this page. It changes every time a friend does something, like post a blog or comment on a question. TRICK: the more friends you have here, the more your ‘scroll’ changes. So make sure to befriend lots of people. 3) then I usually change my status…that’s up there, on top of this page, by your name. click it and type in whatever you are doing…’getting coffee’ or ‘going to lunch’. When you update that, it notifies all of your friends in their scroll…so they know you are online now. 4) then I usually add a new question or a new blog post. That’s easy to do…from here look up a little on the page and see the words Blog and Advice. Right next to each one is “add new’. Click that and start typing. Hit submit and your post goes directly to the site home page for everyone to see and read and comment on. Blogs are usually longer and more detailed, while Advice/Answers are usually quick questions you need help on right now. Read some other members to get a feel for it and then start your own blogs and questions! 5) then I start answering other peoples stuff…I’ll read blogs and post my comments…and I’ll read questions and post my answers to try to help other people. That’s the goal here. All of our opinions and experiences really help. 6) then I’ll start writing on some of my friends wall…..that’s this area right here. It’s really good for quick questions to one member or personal jokes or a little note. 6)another good idea is to welcome new members or look around for people who don’t have any comments yet, and be the first. Thanks and welcome…paula

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The thing with my husband never being around never really bothered my son that much. Then one day a few years ago my son started to call his dad by his first name. He refused to call him dad! A took a few weeks, but he did start calling him dad again. I've gone back and forth on everything because of our son. I didn't want to upset anyone, so it wasn't until my husband caught me a second time in my affair that I was able to say that I wanted out. Of course, just when I think my son will be ok with everything, he gets in one of those super clingy to daddy moods. But I realize that I get so upset, mean and negative when my husband is around and my son is starting to act the same way at times. I know that I need to get out because I really feel it will be better for our son in the long run.