hi, what is with the handle, splatty? I am 53 and inexcellent shape. We must concentrate on the positive to survive. My wife left a beautifull marrage, home and 3 boys(25, 27, 29) and she has not responded to our emails. My doctor says it is hormoanal but I disagree. She left Feb. 15 to live with her lover (62 yrs old) and I still love her after 33 years of marrage. I started to divorce but I cannot bring myself to sign it. She is 51 Years old and always desired the warm climate. She is living the life of Scarlette Ohara from #gone with the wind, 1939. He is weathy and she will do anything to be with him. Their relationship is based on sex as I learned from the 15000 emails in her computer. Leaving me is one thing but leaving her 3 boys is inhuman. They are all successfull in life and they each own two properties. Anyway How are you? You donot have to respond as I know that there are a lot of kooks out there. Just know that I know how this divorce business can make or break a person. I am in Edmonton Alberta, Canada and I am curious where you live? These past 3 months feel like 6 months. So that means I am growing more mature. Worse things can and will happen to all of us. We must be positive and concentrate on our health as this world has a way of bringing us down. Become confident, self assured and strong for your kids. My boys back me up, some say that I shouldnot have included them in this mess, but I am glad I did as she returned from her affair Januarey 25 and blamed me for ignoring her and driving her into the arms of another man. She is the love of my life and I know that I will recover. It is 15 degrees here in Edmonton. Take care my dear, Kev

Hi, Splatty. Welcome to D360. Glad to see you here. This is a great place to find advice, help, and support. You can relax here; you're among friends. If there's anything I can do to help you find your way around, just drop me a line.

Hi, welcome to d360. I thought I would send you this quicky 'get started' email to help you figure out the site.

1. okay, this is your wall. Members leave semi-private notes or jokes here. Go to any members Profile page (by clicking on their name, and scroll down to the bottom…and there's the wall. You should check it often to see if anyone has left you a note.
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Thanks, Paula