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by Cristylpn   22 Posts 12/29/2008 4:25 PM

Honestly You will know when its too much soon. I had a breaking point when dispite no money and feeling more alone then ever in my life i said "Thats it...NO more" During this time My ex was telling me things like "perhaps if you started an online account on secondlife we could reconnect!" ( okay so start a fake life so we can have a chance with the real one?) Or he would say "Can't I be married to you and still have Her?" (Ummmm let me think NO) He wasn't really into making it easier on me...but easier on himself. He didnt want to lose his comfort zone anymore then I did. But I had enough and decided I wasn't a very good sharer...at least not with my MAN. This was after 20 year together and he threw me away for a online lover....talk about a blow. I doubt I will ever be the same. Just trust your gut...if I had I would of been in less pain. I allowed it to go on too long. Good luck.


by lenn   1126 Posts 12/28/2008 4:43 PM

Day in, day out sweetie. That's all you can do; unfortunately, there are no shortcuts in this journey. You will make it--if the pain hasn't killed you yet, it won't: the worst is always in the beginning. You'll be fine; doesn't seem like it now, but it's true.



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