setherzoo thanks for the kind words

I am glad for you, maybe you can save your marriage before its to late. I hope things work out for you, I am keeping my fingerscrossed!!!! Goodluck!

Hi zoo, I am glad you responded, feel free to contact me anytime. I do know what you mean "sometimes it hurts and sometimes it doesn't". It hurts when you think of this being it, the final straw, but it feels good when they hurt us by their selfish actions or their hurtful words. Been there and done that. Sometimes still doing that. I tried to hang in there for the last 5 yrs. I did everything right, I was the best woman I could be, but it was to late. I now wish I would have left him sooner (besides my daughter) I could have started my road to happiness a lot sooner. I truly think men are wired differently, and I think they don't realize the hurt they put us through until they grow up and mature. Your ex sounds so much like my ex and it lets me see just how immature my ex really is. It takes for me to step outside of myself to see this. Or maybe its just me being so tired of being walked on that I am finally allowing myself to see what he truly is. Not that these guys are crappy guys, they probably are really nice guys at heart but right now they are not thinking with their hearts, hell they are not even mature enough to think with their heads yet. But trust me their time is coming. If your gut is telling you something, follow it. Your gut is your inner guidance and is NEVER wrong.