Hello I am Kev. I am in the same situation as you, I am 53, my boys are 25, 27, 29 and all all doing well owning 2 properties each, I tend to brag about them to much. My handle in here is kevinwo so you can read my story. I live in Edmonton, Canada. I donot see the purpose of separation unless you are trying to reunite. In my case divorce is what I am seeking and it goes against all my instincts. The betrayal is too great to bear, yet I do forgive her totally and would never revisite the past as I love her dearly, to death. But the problem is that she is totally unrepentant and feels that she is entitled to those affairs. It has shaken the foundation of our whole family which one of a kind in displaying love. So I would like to give you words of encouragement. When difficulties arise opportunities arise. Also happiness is a choice. Also, we are healed by suffering only by experiencing it first. Also the mistakes we have made will be called experience later, so mistakes=experience. Also change is the law of life so if we always look to the past, we are certain to miss the future. and , when you map out your future do it in pencil as we cannot fortell how it will turnout. Please write me as as I need encouragement very much Kev

Thanks, you are too kind. I hope you can get your stuff worked out before it is all over. I am just now learning things that she did. This is even worse than the stuff during it all. ('nuff about me). I hope it finally comes together for you, it's sad but we all need an ending to begin a new tomorrow.

Glad to hear it is working out for you. Happy Mother's Day to you too.Enjoy your moive. let us know when you finally get the divorce. I know you will certainly be celebrating.