Sandyjo, recognizing the error is already a step in the right direction. No one is perfect, so it would be arrogant of me to judge what you did. That said, our actions have consequences, and if he is a being of flesh and blood, you can rest assured he is going to exact maximum punishment for what he probably beleives is the worst offense he could have endured. I am just being honest with you, because I am in the same situation as he is, and I am feeling what he must be feeling. There is a silver lining in your case, though: you admitted your mistake; your weakness allow the hurricane into your household, which is now destroyed. By admitting that, you are on your way to some healing. I wish you a lot of courage, good luck, and good learning.

Hang in there girly. Please read both the negative and positive comments as they both hold some truth...but you can choose to not allow the negative ones to break you down. Take from them what you need. I can see that you are in pain and trying to cope with the end result of your decision. I pray that you see brighter days in your future. Take care.

doesnt matter who did what or who cheated if there was some kind of abuse weather it be emotional or mental or physical and he wasnt communicating with u and giving u the attention u wouldnt of been looking.... for someone to fill that void... it does take 2 ppls to work at a marriage as it does to break it. and if one wont communicate and u are the only one and u cant get no where then i see why u did what u did. im not here to judge or to give u hate mail. i totally understand .