hey there, i notice you keep reposting the same post over and over again. people will get confused about where to comment. it's best to post once and post again, (and as many times as you want), with different questions/topics.

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Hello my friends, sorry I haven't been able to talk with you. I can only do this at work. I have decided to leave my verbally abusesive husband. The last straw was a couple of weeksw ago. I asked him to iron the childrens clothes that morning and he literally cursed me out for waking him up on his day off. He did this infron of the children, the oldeset(10) didnt hear him , but the 7 year old did and he asked me why was Daddy fussing at me, I told him that he did not want to iron your clothes and he replied "he acts like he don't care about us". That broke my heart. I got to wok and got overwhelmed with what I had to do. I jus started crying and couldnt stop, I couldn't concentrate on what I was doing so I took an early lunch and went to look at an apartment, couldn't get that one because I owned a house and it would put me over the Affordable Housing Income Level. I went to look at another, and decided to get it all of this happened on a monday. Tuesday I put down a deposit and I will be moving on 12-20. Now I have a delima, Should I leave before Christmas? I really need some feed back. I only thinking of the children. I am not going to tell him that I am leaving for fear that it will be a horrible ordeal I'm only taking what I need, Living room my oldest son's bedroom (20) and the smaller children's room and other thins like kitchen stuff etc.