Hi Peace we were referred to use a parent coordinator on issues.Can you give some advice on what types of questions I should ask.I have a list of about 6 any help you could give me would be great.

Exactly. Why pretend nothing ever happened. Until there is closure it is NOT happening.

Hi Peace, Just read your post on my blog. My husband wanted at first to have them 50/50. He moved into an apartment that my kids hate going to. They do feel betrayed and my youngest is in counsleing. He is a good Dad and I want them to be with him. He has now changed the time he wants to spend with them to everyother weekend and dinner one night a week. His decision. Fine with me. I think on one level they are at the age where they do not need to create two homes. My oldest will be driving soon and I told him he can see Dad whenever he wants to. My daughter is having a hard time. That is a little bit of the whole story.