Okay so I decided to move on. In my new home. Life feels a little better, but what do you do when you want your STBX to suffer for what he has put you through?

Hi, I am in the midst of one of the greatest battles I have ever fought. I have for months known something was wrong in my marriage, but didn't have the proof that it was an affair. I have been married 5 years, in the course of that my husband has had encounters that have been very questionable to me. Each time we discussed the situation and come to a resolution. However, in the past 6 months my husband has become completely detached from our home life. We do not go out together, when he is at home he is to himself. Now mind you my husband is only home 2-3 days a week. Our sex life seems more of a chore to him than pleasure. Now I have found one of the greatset reasons this is happening. My husband met a female in August and pursued a relationship with her. For months that have been seeing each other. He has lied to me on so many occasions. Even after the affair was out in the open, he went back to this women several times. Am I crazy, why am still here? This is so scary and so unfair. How do u make decisions when u are so confused?

Hi, welcome to d360. Here’s a quicky ‘how-to-get-started’ note. 1.You can do everything from here, your MyStuff/Profile page. At the top is your ACTIVITY/scroll. When your friends/people you follow, post something new, it will show up here. It’s live and in real time. 2. Post a new QUESTION. See where it says ADVICE? Click Add New and type a question. When you hit submit, the entire site can see it, read it and comment on it. 3. Post a new BLOG. Click Add New up at the Blog section. Advice/Questions are usually shorter questions that need answers now….and blogs are longer, personal stories or vents. 4. See if anyone commented on your questions and blogs and if they did, comment back. 5. Read other members questions and blogs and give them your thoughts. 6. Follow people. When you see the follow button/get alerts link, and you like that members posts or that topic, click it. You will be alerted when they post. 7. This area here is your Wall. It’s for semi-private notes or jokes between members. Hope this helps. Let me know if you have any questions. Thanks, Paula