How are you doing? I know a lot of people left comments for you. I hope we didn't overwhelm you. Most of us have had a partner cheat on us. That's why most marriages break up. The one who did the cheating rarely comes here because they are trying to justify their behavior. You hit a nerve with a lot of us since we absolutely sympathize with you and would be very hurt if our x's had done this as well. No one can make a decision for you. However, I hope it helps to know that a lot of us have had the same thing. It would seem that, except for a few who have cheated, we agree that his behaviour should not be tolerated. Many on here took back their cheating spouse only to have the spouse cheat on them again. Why not? They were forgiven once, you'll forgive again. You deserve so much better.

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RUN...DON'T WALK!!! If he cheated once, he'll do it again. I wish I had listened to my own advice and not wasted my time on someone who wasn't worth it. I had a lot of reasons for forgiving him (my religion, keeping my family together, no one is perfect and everyone deserves a second chance, blah, blah, blah) but if he loved me he never would have done it in the first place. The only good thing about it was that the OW didn't get him. I won, if staying with an unfaithful person is ever considered winning. She's now married with 2 kids even though she told him how marriage is unnatural and that she would never get married. How do I know? He told me. This second time he cheated (with someone else), he wanted to remain friends, I guess, as if I'd ever be friends with someone I could never trust. A friend of mine just found him on Facebook and it looks like he's collecting a lot of friends. I always wonder about people who become friends with someone who obviously is collecting "friends". Is it to make the OW think they're so desireable? I'm now only dating men who have morals, that I can trust. I know it's hard to trust again after going through something like this especially when you realize that your husband didn't care about his children, much less you. You deserve to be with someone who you can trust, who is loyal and would never chose the excitement of having sex with someone new over their family. It's natural to be attracted to someone else especially after being married for a long time. It's just takes someone with principles to think about what their actions will do to their families. Leave him to the OW. She deserves him. Eventually she'll get bored with him too and dump him like he deserves to be dumped or he'll get tired of her and he'll dump her which she deserves to go through too. Once a cheater, always a cheater. My ex told me that the OW he left me for this time broke up with him because she wanted a commitment and he wasn't ready for one. See? She deserved it and one day he'll get what he deserves too. In the meantime, I'm ve