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by fitz   33 Posts 6/14/2009 1:38 PM

How much of his disposable retirement will you be getting? Do you plan to marry another GI to get another retirement?


by CHRISTOPHER36   806 Posts 12/24/2008 12:24 AM

A woman w/ 4 kids can be a lot of things to a lot of people, to the right person, she is the one he wants with 4 additional chances of having family. At least that's how my dad saw it when he met my mom. My dad wasn't the only one out there who saw things this way. You hold, never know. :)


by jhs   555 Posts 11/19/2008 8:39 PM

Thanks for the thanks. It is definitely easier said than done, though; much harder to do! It's a little like the prayer of serenity. Recognize what you can control and what you can't. Don't stress about what you can't control (it's just "input"). And take responsibility for what you can control; don't blame the "input". If you can move even a little towards that paradigm, I believe you will be closer to accepting what "is", and spending less time stressing about what "isn't". Take care...and remember it does get better.


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