I hear you, and I understand, you see my husband had an affair 23 years ago that we worked through, it was very hard for many years, I never thought I would have to deal with it again, now I do have to deal with it again, my husband had multiple affairs over the years this last one for almost four years, he broke it off with her and wants me...do I want him, after everything I found out and I feel like my life was a lie??? I moved out with my daughter six weeks ago, I found out on a tuesday night, wednesday I had an appartment and by thursday night I had everything moved in, he didn't think it was possible to do this so fast...just watch me buddy!! You know how I found out, my son who lives in another state was up here hunting with a buddy, he found his dad down a dirt was with another woman in his truck, my husband is lucky my son's buddy got him out of there so fast he would have kicked his dad's ass, of course at first he still lied, not until two weeks later he came out with the whole truth...who is this man????? My life is upside down...turned around...inside out and backwards...which way is up??? Thanks for listening...best to you

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