good morning, I didnt know there was a calculation ratio thing - Ive been married 20 years...........mostly stay at home mom - now disabled by my husband - whoI will be leaving , soon..............So in NY there's a rule like that to ?.I'll have to look that up. ........... Oh and good morning, I was intrigued my your name , Im a bit of a musician.......

Hi, welcome to d360. Here’s a quicky ‘how-to-get-started’ note. 1.You can do everything from here, your MyStuff/Profile page. At the top is your ACTIVITY/scroll. When your friends/people you follow, post something new, it will show up here. It’s live and in real time. 2. Post a new QUESTION. See where it says ADVICE? Click Add New and type a question. When you hit submit, the entire site can see it, read it and comment on it. 3. Post a new BLOG. Click Add New up at the Blog section. Advice/Questions are usually shorter questions that need answers now….and blogs are longer, personal stories or vents. 4. See if anyone commented on your questions and blogs and if they did, comment back. 5. Read other members questions and blogs and give them your thoughts. 6. Follow people. When you see the follow button/get alerts link, and you like that members posts or that topic, click it. You will be alerted when they post. 7. This area here is your Wall. It’s for semi-private notes or jokes between members. Hope this helps. Let me know if you have any questions. Thanks, Paula

Thank you Music Mom, I do agree with what you said. This initial part is really for my daughter. Not sure where to draw the line of helping. During our marriage I have done everything and I mean everything! He wants them 50/50 which is so laughable. Anyway, thank you for your post.