Well it sounds as though it is going alot better,are you sorry you two filed? In my case we are still friends but I just don't like the way I've been treated in the last 7 yrs. I know there is someone out there that will want me for me. But to change the subject I thought the other party had like 90 days to buy you out, guess I was wrong there! So do I still live here until I get some kind of finances from him? There is not a problem with that. You have anymore advice ....LOL And thanks for caring to write me sarasara

alot has changed. we are still in the mid of divorce. I have an attorney and he does have to pay spousal maintance and my edu expense. the house is mine he is giving it to me. as for the mortgage we are both responsible till it gets refi. and that is not going to happen for a while. we are talking again and things don't look too bad for us. someday we both hope to find the person that we lost in the marriage, no one wins and everyone looses in divorce. esp the kids. I made a mistake in judgement months ago I admit but he also admits my choices were based on his actions. I guess we are making some head way .... wish us luck in rebuilding a friendship

Hello from Minnesota, I am still on my husbands company insurance. He keeps telling me that he can't keep me on it after the divorce. I am receiving Social Security disability benefits, but the Medicare will only cover certain things. So now I have to find some affordable insurance, which is not easy, when you're looking for a place to live and have to pay 1st and last months rent plus a deposit. I am getting no support. So I have to move in with relatives. I'm wondering if he can keep me off his insurance when we get divorced. Should I call his employer and ask about it?