Thank you for your post on my wall, I appreciate that. I feel my ex can do anything he wants to me I don't care anymore, I have forgiven him and moved on with that, I went thru a support group and that's one of the things they said to forgive the person that hurt you or it will eat you up inside like a poison and I don't want that for myself or my kids. The thing that hurts me is my boys being hurt. This was supposed to be his weekend and he once again told them he could get them for lunch on Sun. (today) for a little bit, well my youngest told my oldest son I don't want to go so my oldest son called his dad and told him he had a headache and they didn't want to go. My son didn't have a headache because right after he talked to his dad he asked to go to his friends house--which I said he could. He might as well, his dad could care less about either of them, which is the truth and I don't even have to say that to my boys--they know already. It just hurts to see my boys hurting so much. I'm glad that someone agrees with my opinion on here, because apparently there are people on here who want me to remove my blog because it's too offensive, the person is spaz (the attorney), and I refuse to remove my blog because I was told I could vent on here and tell my opinion and that's what I'm doing. I'm not trying to offend anyone and I'm not attacking anyone with this blog, the only person I'm attacking is my ex and I've already attacked him in person many times right after the divorce!! That's why I'm thinking of closing my accounts, because I'm tired of every time I post a blog or say my opinion--and I'm always blunt and to the point that's how I am, I get chastised for it!! But thank you for the post. Take care of yourself.

Thanks for the note. I hope that you continue to find help and support on this site.

hi, welcome to d360. let me know if i can help with anything. there are a bunch of things you can do to get started here. here's what i usually do. every day i log on to the site to see what's new. so... 1. i log on and come here, to the MyStuff/Profile page. i can quickly check to see if anyone has made a comment on my questions or my blogs from this page. and i'll click back to comment on their comment. 2. from there i check my scroll (at the top of this page), to see what my friends have been doing. the more friends you have, the more activity in your scroll. it helps. 3. then i change my status...up there by your name. maybe i'm drinking coffee or about to get lunch or whatever. as soon i update my status, it hits my friends scroll...so they know too. 4. then i'll maybe add a new question. scroll up there to the Advice area on this page and click Add New. when you do that, your question gets posted onto the home page of the site and onto the community home page of the site at the same time. so every member can see it, read it and make a comment. 5. later, i'll add a new blog...scroll up to blog and click Add New. blogs are usually longer and more detailed. some members write about what is happening in the divorce or life after divorce or whatever. the advice area is really about questions that you want answered today...right now. 6. after that i'll start reading some questions. just click on the big Community Tab at the top of site and start reading. i really try to answer as honestly as i can, i know that everyone here would really like some answer to their questions. So if you see someone without an answer, try to see if you can help. you know, your perpsective is helpful. 7. then i'll move over to the Blogs, that's just a few tabs to the left of the Community tab. i'll read some blogs and post my comments too. 8. Then i'll go and write on some of my friends walls. and maybe even some new members walls too. The wall (that's what this area is), is really a semi-private area for members to make personal notes/jokes etc.