Hi Mixie, I can relate, my husband had multiple affairs over the years, I didn't know until recently, been married 30 years, he actually had a secret phone that he would talk on with her, he's been seeing her for almost four years, I left him in October, it's hard, I feel like my life's been a lie, he broke it off with her and wants me back, how would I ever trust him again, I feel like he's not the man I thought he was, I wish you well

Do liars have a conscience? Part of his affair is the cell phone. He has the phone glued to his hip. He even went so far as hiding it when he was taking a bath. Blows up if questioned about it. Unfortunately all incoming phone calls on the cell phone bill don't show who called. Why is that?

I am really green with this blogging. In fact I finally decided to try an download 290 digital photos onto my computer. Trial & error. I bought the digital camera this summer. Just procrastinated on attempting to download photos. Still am not quite sure if it's up to snuff. Meanwhile it's a new year...and I vowed this year to do something about this rotten marriage. I've been living with a cheater for almost 14-15 years. 2 love affairs. But the current one has been going on for what I think 10 years. Funny thing is he doesn't want a divorce. Hey...we're old people...been married 38 plus years. Both overweight...and he's got himself a tummy. After beeing soooo naieve...figured out his cell phone is off limits to me because he's been talking to "her" about 5-6 times a day. Keeps it on "vibrate" so I won't hear when she's calling. So much more to this whole story...but for now...I'll drink some wine and finish out the evening. Have to work in the morning.