Hi, welcome to d360. Let me know if I can help with anything at all. I thought I’d send this quicky ‘how-to-get-started’ note and leave it on your wall. I hope it helps you. Here’s what I usually do here. Everyday I 1) log on to the site. Simply type in your email and password to get started, then I come here, to the MyStuff/Profile page so I can see if anyone has answered my blog or question. If they have, I click on it and answer them back. 2) then I check the ‘scroll’..that’s the stuff at the top of this page. It changes every time a friend does something, like post a blog or comment on a question. TRICK: the more friends you have here, the more your ‘scroll’ changes. So make sure to befriend lots of people. 3) then I usually change my status…that’s up there, on top of this page, by your name. click it and type in whatever you are doing…’getting coffee’ or ‘going to lunch’. When you update that, it notifies all of your friends in their scroll…so they know you are online now. 4) then I usually add a new question or a new blog post. That’s easy to do…from here look up a little on the page and see the words Blog and Advice. Right next to each one is “add new’. Click that and start typing. Hit submit and your post goes directly to the site home page for everyone to see and read and comment on. Blogs are usually longer and more detailed, while Advice/Answers are usually quick questions you need help on right now. Read some other members to get a feel for it and then start your own blogs and questions! 5) then I start answering other peoples stuff…I’ll read blogs and post my comments…and I’ll read questions and post my answers to try to help other people. That’s the goal here. All of our opinions and experiences really help. 6) then I’ll start writing on some of my friends wall…..that’s this area right here. It’s really good for quick questions to one member or personal jokes or a little note. 6)another good idea is to welcome new members or look around for people who don’t have any comments yet, and be the first. Thanks and welcome…paula

i love my husband but it seems as though i'm doing this all by myself. now that i want a legal separation he wants to do things around the house and the problem i have with that is it only last for about maybe a month and then it goes back to the same old nothing.he only tries to help me when i say i wanna leave him then it only last for a little while now he's crying and fixing things around the house but he's looking for encouragement from me but this is what he always do for about a month then he go 's back to the same old bill. i love him but i'm tired of taking care of this family alone when he's here too.if he would just help out when he gets off work that might help but he comes home and if i'm in the livingroom he's in the livingroom.basically where ever i am he goes too untill i tell him to do something.i hate the fact that i have to tell him to do everthing! i even ask him to make a decision about something and he'll find some way to not make the decision! we have been blessed with a beautiful home and he won't even do up grades to the home unless i tell him or get really upset and act beligerent or say i'm leaving him