Well, for me, I go to the gym 3 times a week and golf once or twice. I spend quality time with friends and neighbors. I walk my dogs. I'm not ready to date again, but at least I know that. That's what I'm doing for me. I gotta be perfectly honest with you though, what I posted on your blog is what has helped the most. Be well and thank you for the feedback!

Hello, in response to your question regarding resources. I used several books that I would highly recommend. I just need to find them again. When I do, I will provide you with those references. One I do remember is "Not Just Friends" by Shirley Glass. Another is "After the Affair" but I can't remember the author. Will get back to you. In case you are keeping record - I was sadly not able to preserve my marriage despite begging my husband to return. So, all the books helped me forgive, but he wasn't able to keep up his part of the deal.

Hi, welcome to d360. I thought I would send you this quicky 'get started' email to help you figure out the site.

1. okay, this is your wall. Members leave semi-private notes or jokes here. Go to any members Profile page (by clicking on their name, and scroll down to the bottom…and there's the wall. You should check it often to see if anyone has left you a note.
2. We are on your Profile/MyStuff page right now. You can do everything from here. All of your friends are here, your blogs, comments and groups.
3. You have private email here as well. Upper right hand corner of this page is your Inbox link. Click it and you can send private emails to any member. Just type in their site name and send.
4. You can ask questions from here. Scroll up a bit from the wall and you'll see Advice. Click Add New and start typing a question. When you hit submit it will be published in real time to the community (and on the home page of the site). Everyone can see it, read it and comment on it. You can come back to it anytime you want to and read the comments from this page as well. Just click it and go.
5. You can post blogs here too. Blogs are usually longer and more detailed personalized stories. Scroll up a bit from here, see Blogs, click Add New and start writing.
6. If you like a members posts or a particular story, you can click the Follow button or the Alert Me link and you will be alerted via email whenever there is activity. I hope this helps. If you have any questions, let me know.

Thanks, Paula