I'm sorry I didn't respond earlier to the other post.Marie,the distraction's during this process are more then welcome.Anything that keeps me occupied away from them and does not allow me to slide into depths of self pity,I embrace. I just can't get them to leave my home.Financially my wife should be moving into a home so she can get the 8,000 first time buyer credit. It figures though she has no sense about financial matters at all.Yet the destruction continues unabated.I can not understand why in the world she has removed all the window treatments and hardware while still living in my home?? Marie,I can't wait because all this is doing is delaying my recovery process.Although reclaiming my home and my space will provide me with the peace and serenity I miss so much now.

Thank you for responding to my post's.Hang in there ma'am.Unfortunately.I have been on both side of this divorce mess.My first wife left me and our children 26 yrs. ago. I raised the children and wanted to have a successful relationship so much that I remarried 16 years after the first.Now I am the one filing for the third time in 9 1/2 years.She has a mental disorder that makes it impossible to live with any longer.The physical and metal abuse is too much. It is no different on either side.

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