I'm glad to know you are researching your options. If you do get to move I hope the move is everthing you want. I have lived in six states and it gives you a different perspective on life when you get out of your home state. Take care

Thanks, so much ....Mag. This has been a hard two years. We have talked to our minister, parents, etc...but she continues with the late night(s) every two weeks or so. She states we are at an impass...why would a women put staying out all night above her marriage? Oh, she may like women as well. We have a 300k plus home, nices cars.. jag, etc..she's living good. I have never hit on her. We have had some tough financial times here and there over 14 years...but I did not cheat when the going got tough. She just turned 40...could she be in a midlife crisis? but reguardless, I don't think I should put up with this type of behavior. Why would she do this knowing it would upset me...she promise me three months ago she would stop...I said if you want our marriage it has to stop...she said ok..but a month or so later it started back...she says she has not boyfriend or girl friend. I don't know what to do.

Mag, I am sorry you had to go through that. As you found out, commitment will only work if both partners are fully committed to each other. Obviously he was not committed and wasn't ready to be the man it takes to be in a relationship. I know that you will attract the person of your dreams! I have seen in thousands of times and that is why I wrote my book. Just know that there are millions of amazing men out there ready for a relation-ship and not a relation-canoe. Dr. Dan www.AskTheRealLoveGuru.com