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I have probably said this before and I will say it again... I no longer like the person that I have become, I have allowed myself to be belittled throughout this relationship. I at times feel as though this is the best marriage I could ever have, I mean comments(2)

I feel so lost and hopeless. I am back at the house with my lying and cheating husband. Why? Because I have no where else to go. I have family but who is honestly willing to take in an unemplyed woman with 4 young children and absolutely no income duri comments(11)

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	by PHOENIX_ROAS 70 Posts 8/29/2010 11:16 PM Lonley, you have 4 kids and are divorcing. I know a woman who has the same thing. 4 kids and a divorce. She was dirt poor and no family, but head on fighting for her kids without any man in her life. after a few years, she was this really strong woman. She end up meeting a guy, falling in love, remarring, and spent 27 years with him has her kids had their own kids and life went on. Her husband died in late 2007 of cancer. She is still alive and still very strong. The woman is my mom and her 2nd husband is the only guy I ever called or loved as my dad. You (I feel) don't need a man right now, you need to for you to get strong as a person so you can strong enough to grab that secound chance when he does come along. Just a passing thought I thought might help.

	by lonley 27 Posts 1/27/2010 9:06 AM Damn he's good but THANK GOD I AM STRONGER AND WISER!!!! He is attempting to show me that he has changed, he is calling home on every break and at lunch time to check on the kids and I. He is now calling me when he leaves the office and most often coming directly home or even offering information on his whereabouts if he isn't coming straight home. He is helping out more around the house and with kids! I am starting to wonder who this guy is that I am living with now, but I has to be only a hoax..... After all these years could he possibly change ? Or is he only doing this In an effort to have re evaluate my decision to move on with my life?

	by angel2010 3 Posts 1/22/2010 7:18 PM lonley yes it is scary how our situations are simalar. I also found text messages on a work phone that he only told me I could only call him for emergencies, but his Hooker could text him anytime. That happened 2 years ago. I dont understand why men have to cheat and why they dont realize what they have at home. It's a question I ask all the time. Thank you for your thoughts. I also always give good advice. Funny thing is I never follow my own advice.Only thing I can say is stay strong and move forward. I know easier said than done.

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