You are young. YOu still have your whole life ahead of you. There are plenty of men out there who will want you. I am older than you are but I have lots of dates. I didn't think that would happen. THere are women on this site in their 40s, 50s, 60s who still have dates. My mother passed away and my dad got remarried at 60. SO in your 20s you still have lots of time. I know. It sucks that he has someone and you don't. Mine did the same. I saw no reason to wait for the divorce, I found a hot young guy about 3 months after the x left. I met him the first time I went out to a restaurant. I really thought no one would ever want me again. Not true. It's not true for you,either. It was good for me to get out and start dating, but now I've established that I'm still attractive and it was just his problem, so I'm looking at them more carefully. The cheating isn't because of you, it's he. Think halle berry, faith hill, jenifer aniston, reese witherspoon. These are all young, beautiful, successful women, whose husbands cheated on them. It is not you and therefore you can find someone else if you want to.

I am glad if I could help. I made a mess of my life and my marriage, but if at least one person benefits from my mistakes it makes me feel better. I am so sorry this has happened to you. I'm not sure I'm going down that road again, and yet I don't want to be alone. I'm so confused, lol.

Your welcome~ Hope you are having a good weekend Nessa :)