I think that it okay to have a healthy appitite for sex, but only if both agree and enjoy the experience. I don't believe that you need porn to make you excited. I believe that two people should be creative in the bedroom. If you say no that means no and you should give your partner the respect they are asking for when they say no. So what if you have to pout, you'll get over it. That does not mean that you have to go and look for sex out side your home just because you have to be told no. If you want respect for yourself you must give respect to get it. Besides you should not make your whole marrage or partnership about sex to begin with.