I just read your blog. My heart goes out to you. At this point I think your number one goal should be to get out of the SIL house by the end of the week, regardless of how much it costs or if you have to live in less than ideal circumstances. Family is like fish. After 2 days they start to stink. I think you are on target that she has been talking to your sister in law. Your SIL needs to stay out of it. Then do anything at all you need to do to make her understand that your SIL is wrong and you really love her. If housework is a problem, don't wait to be asked! Clean, cook, wash, do dishes, whatever. Get a sitter for the kids and take her out to a nice dinner. Don't worry about money right now. Your marriage is more important and it will cost you a lot more to divorce anyway. This is from a serious penny pincher, by the way. Hugs. I hope it works out for you.

Hi, welcome to d360. I thought I would send you this quicky 'get started' email to help you figure out the site.

1. okay, this is your wall. Members leave semi-private notes or jokes here. Go to any members Profile page (by clicking on their name, and scroll down to the bottom…and there's the wall. You should check it often to see if anyone has left you a note.
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Thanks, Paula