Hi jckstraw99. I have a similar circumstance to you. I had back surgery a year ago. I am doing much better now! Funny, too that now that he moved out with his girlfriend and her 4 kids, I feel much better, too! I've been able to keep house almost flawlessly since he left. Self-centered and immature, he never let on that he was cheating on me. I found pictures of other women on MY computer in his folders. He says he never cheated, but I don't believe that at all, now that I have hindsight. I didn't see this coming. He was soooo attentive and never complained. I tried to meet his every need and be a perfect wife for him. He actually told people that I was perfect. Then, he left me on my birthday less than 2 months ago for a woman with a baby (Not his. He had a vasectomy about 3 years ago while we were married). Just know that we both will get on with our lives and the pain will lessen. I'm working toward my dreams and trying to keep my mind off of him. It hasn't been easy, but I will get there. I pray for your peace.

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