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by BASSET   1132 Posts 11/20/2009 11:18 AM

James, you're a good guy. I hope that you get more and more time with your girls. I know it's hard and I really don't have answers, but I know from what I have face that quality of time matters as much as the amount of time. You enjoy all the time you have with your girls and always keep moving for better things. Better things really do happen. Thanks for everything and hope you the best.


by mtnvly   3539 Posts 11/20/2009 7:34 AM

Yes- Be your normal calm self. Tell them the truth- that you are moving on with your life. That you are so hurt by what has happened that it is very hard for you to even talk to her at this point. You are trying to get thru things and make things easier on them and yourself! They are not so small that you can't say things like that to them. Just don't do it in a way that they will go to her and say Dad said..blagh blagh..((hugs)) BTW- the anger thing- is normal! I FINALLY got angry at one of my bf's for what he did to me and was able to move on. Feels great to be able to close that door! You are healing! Getting stronger! That is a very good thing!(at least I think!)


by Kitty7470   2618 Posts 11/20/2009 5:59 AM

You even have to ask?!? All hugs accepted, pal. Hope you have a great day........


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