jaded, thank you for writing and thank you above all for the comment on being strong........i so needed to hear that. yeah, i feel totally screwed as well...... not a leg to stand on and like you no place to go..........everything is "his"........ the house, the cars, the kids...........he is the biggest ass i ever met......."kicking self", and i had to marry him.........he is just not willing to talk about divorce! i say "listen it doesnt have to be ugly , i dont want anything, we'll get along much better this way.........blahblah" and he says " eeff you you efffin' bitch " and so on and so forth......and this is all after he tells me that he basicly hates me! stumped, am i missing something here??? i am just waiting for my youngest to start school next year and i'll get a job doing something........if there is anything i am learning, its to find a kick ass lawyer and build my foundation back up again (easier said than done when someone is sucking the life out of ya, right?!!) i'd sell my right leg right now just to hop the hell away from this (lol).........what about you? do you have a plan, so to speak?

I'll be watching and giving what information that I can. Just know that I care and so do many others on this site. We will not intentionally turn you wrong, but have been burned ourselves and sometimes can't see the forrest for the trees. Take care.

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