Hi. Im In Hawaii now (Oahu) and leaving for the East Coast. STBX on the otherhand will remain here until he depolys next July (living like a single man Im sure) then will stay three months after he returns from deployment. Yeah, he doesnt realize at all how lucky he is that Im not the type of wife that will pull him through the mud with every move and that he has something that he really doeasnt even have to fight for... two kids and a wife. But since he's an ass and cant see beyond his two feet, I guess he is going to have to realize what he has lost years from now when (and IF) he decides to grow up. I am going to take this in stride and move on. This will be my second divorce,...ugh. I think Im DONE with this whole marriage business. I gave it two good tries for over 15 years... IM DONE.

Thanks, lol, I thought the screen name perfectly suited how I felt, lol. Im not very shy about expressing myself, as you can tell, lol.

Got it, thanks I needed that