Yes I guess I am out of my mind- this was a vent for this site only. She never got it. I went to the same denomination as this woman - the same church for 4-5 years . They are penticostal- assembly of God. If you know anything about that you know how they teach- you know where they are coming from. Any REAL christian who has been thru counseling for this- was arrested for trying to run her ex off of the road WITH the kids in the car has severe issues. She yanks them around- yells and screams constantly( I have heard it with my own ears) I know what a/g churches teach- I was in an a/g church for 14 years total. Forgiveness- letting go- unconditional love- I am not judging her but her fruits which is "allowed" in the church. Her fruit is rotten- to the core.

No I didn't try to work things out cause he said that he "fell out of love" and at that point I didn't want to be with someone that wasn't in love with me! As bad as this sounds I could have worked through the cheating. I know that sounds shitte.. but the fell out of love part I can't live with..... I walked out of 8 yrs with a whopping $20,000 so I know that the money part is the most stressful part. I moved to a new town and had to pay for all the things myself , which I thank god that I'm a nurse and in demand. Feel free to email me or if you need to talk, I work a lot to keep on my mind of my non-very exciting life. I can send you me private email.... MIA

Hi Henner, I read your posting on cheating and truly believe you are %100 right. It is so weird to think that there are so many people that are going through the exact same thing and in the same ways! I feel for you truly but it sounds that you are very smart and very strong women. I wish in many ways I could be that strong too! I think by reading some of these blogs/postings it helps me get the courage I lack.....Well we'll see..... thanks for sharing your thoughts......Mia