My avatar is my furchild and I want to end up like the best of his breed. Independent, loyal to my family and friends. He is 6 yrs old and has a rescue sister only half rotty with a tail and she is 9 years old. I have had rotties since 1991. G

frist may I say I like your avatar. I am glad to hear it. I said that becuase after a long period of marriage that ended bad we seem to have find our self again hmmmm like we never explored who we were. Realtionships can be draining to say the least so I posted. I am glad to hear you got a good handle on it. I just wanted to say there are times when people say things (like spouses and we define who we are by what they say) Remmber you are you and if you are a good person then what ever any one says you know who you are. if that makes any sense. Like you it took me some time but in the end it was not me I did my part but it was the other person. After years of spinning my wheels and think of what that person said I wasn't I relize who and what I was and it was like I open my eyes to my new world. I wish you the best and remmber you define your self no one else and if you have friends then you an ok person and if any one tries to demean who and what you are in life it's their problem they need to see their pastor. Good luck and be strong in this new world it's ok really.

hi there, thanks for the wall post. welcome to the site. i just noticed your question there...so i'm going to go read it and make a comment. jump in. answer others questions/blogs and start posting your own. it really does help to write this stuff out.