Hi, I am going down momof4illinois friends list and asking everyone if they have heard anything from her. There is a concern if she is okay or not. If you have heard from her or about her, can you let others know. People on d360 are very concern. Thanks, chris

Hi, Thank you for your recent post on someone's blog, sorry I dont remember who. It seemed you spoke directly to me, I'm trying to get thru my 1st year post divorce, my ex remarried 1 1/2 months after our divorce was final. Talk about heart wrenching. Every day does get better, but at a drop of the hat I can still cry at movies or if someone even says the word "promise". So many promises made, the main one not kept. Its sad after 24 years of marriage, all decicisions for staying together are suddenly taken away and only made by the ex. I am slowly putting my life together, but times when I'm not doing something, I get weepy and try to shake myself out of it. Well, just wanted to say "thanks".

Don't know if I am supposed to comment on my own wall - newbie :) but tonight was my 18th wedding anniversary and my last as we are separated. Put my wedding gown on (too big - would have to be taken in) and had planned to burn it as the marriage was a frace but decided after putting it on that the dress was all me - and oerfect - the groom was all wrong. Freefalling