Yes he wants less time! Go figure! You are right though, it will be my gain. Right now it hurts but one day I will thank god he left and wonder why the heck I ever cried one tear.

Thanks, only here can I say that the stbx is getting away with everything, I'm the bad man in her eyes, she does nothing wrong. People can understand, I don't know what world she is in, but boy is she blind to a great number of things. I am supposed to get my kids at 7 tonight, but again she is breaking the agreement, I won't get them untill tomorrow. I don't understand how she can keep gettings away with things, it's like she has some kind of demonic power and influence over people, it's difficult to stay possitive and hopeful when she seems to call all the shots. In all that she does, it brings great pain. The betrayal is not enough, she has some how justified this in her mind and yet I'm this evil bad man. I know you can relate, it's such a terrible nightmare. I keep turning to whoever I can to help, yes I have an attorney and a theripist, I am expecting my attorney to bring it to an end, yes, she is new, as I fired my old one. I just want someone to get it and have the authority to make her stop hurting me. I am asking God "where have you gone" "why aren't you helping me"?

Thanks for the note on my wall. Well, things are slow moving with the divorce, blah.. I meant to tell you last week I was cracking up with your title "...H E double..sticks..." LOL! I've never seen it spelled out that way before, ha. Hey, I saw your reply on my "Man's World" blog, thx. WTH is a lech? LOL!! Sounds funny anyway. Well, I hope you are doing ok. Drop me a line when you can.