only you know what is best for you and your son. if you're unhappy and this marriage is not going to get better, you need to work out a realistic plan to leave. sit with your husband and tell him frankly that it is over and that you want this to be friendly and civil and good for everyone. create a timetable for who is moving and where....work together on finding another living arrangement for him (if he's the one moving) and talk to each other about how to tell your son. you may want to start him in therapy now so he can be ready to talk about this when it happens. work out the finances and visitation and holidays and the whole nine yards. since there is no rush, it's best to make this as seamless as possible for everyone.

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