Eve thanks for your insight, Yes i did feel Lucky for having sex with the stbx it made me feel like i was still in a marriage, then it made feel used and hurt again. I guess there are so many questions, like she may be doing the same thing with someone else and here i am like a fool. I will enjoy the tequila, but will not abuse it.Take care

Eve, thank you so much for you words! It makes me feel better to know that what I'm doing, althought it will hurt, is rational.

hey there - sorry it took me a bit to respond to you - I was having log in trouble. On the recusal - sounds like there is something going on betwwen the judge and the ttorney not relatedto your case but with the conflict it would still affect it - better that there is the recusal. Since the temp order was retracted, legally, your ex doesn't have to give your son back - and if he doesn't you can always go over there with a police officer and a copy of the temp order - there wil be no way the cop can find out it isn't a valid order right now. They will make him give the child to you. Discovery - you can file a motion to compel to try to get him to get his act in gear - but there is no specific timeline - His house, you have no claim on. The house you purchased, he could sign of on any claim to it once you are divorced, but as it stands right now, it is still marital property. did I miss anything?