Hey Eggo, just want to offer support. I am getting kids ready for school but will try and log on again later....been through some of what you are experiencing. Keep working on your plan. You will be ok.

Running scared right now.. Just found out a few weeks ago he is searching for local are 18 to 25 year old girls to have casual sex with. We have a 16. 5 year old daughter, and a 18 year old son. He has shared all his online "goodies" with his son, who is disgusted with him. Son will be going off to college in the fall. My daughter does not want to be left alone with him at all. He is paying for online private "chats" with these same 18 year olds. People in the community think he is a pillar of wonderful. The local help is trying to get my daughter and I into a safe house. There is a gun in the house. So far the violent behavior is limited to throwing and punching holes in walls for the most part. We have been together almost 20 years. I am scheduled for surgery on the beginning of july, which, i carry the insurance. I would have to leave my job to go the safe house. I am sooo confused and scared right now. What happens if the credit card bills don't get paid? can they through me in jail? I know he will quit his job when i leave so he doesn't have to pay support.

Hi, welcome to d360. I thought I would send you this quicky 'get started' email to help you figure out the site.

1. okay, this is your wall. Members leave semi-private notes or jokes here. Go to any members Profile page (by clicking on their name, and scroll down to the bottom…and there's the wall. You should check it often to see if anyone has left you a note.
2. We are on your Profile/MyStuff page right now. You can do everything from here. All of your friends are here, your blogs, comments and groups.
3. You have private email here as well. Upper right hand corner of this page is your Inbox link. Click it and you can send private emails to any member. Just type in their site name and send.
4. You can ask questions from here. Scroll up a bit from the wall and you'll see Advice. Click Add New and start typing a question. When you hit submit it will be published in real time to the community (and on the home page of the site). Everyone can see it, read it and comment on it. You can come back to it anytime you want to and read the comments from this page as well. Just click it and go.
5. You can post blogs here too. Blogs are usually longer and more detailed personalized stories. Scroll up a bit from here, see Blogs, click Add New and start writing.
6. If you like a members posts or a particular story, you can click the Follow button or the Alert Me link and you will be alerted via email whenever there is activity. I hope this helps. If you have any questions, let me know.

Thanks, Paula