doots~ "I suppose you would like to give the world a coke too" Toooooooooooooooo friggin priceless!!!! LUV'd it!

Thanks for the vote of confidence. Wish you were right. My husband and my child's dad know each other already and my child's dad thinks my husband is an all out psycho. They never liked each other and probably never will, which is fine as long as they both remember there is a child involved. I pray they will both be civil for the sake of my child.

I'm all for doing some things the old fashioned way. The first thing I would like from someone way before sex is "loyalty". The second thing is "If you are still home with mom and dad,forget it" 3rd, "Love does not mean Polygamy". Forth, my friends don't mean enough to me to break up my home. 5th I don't live with anyone, anymore. The 1960's barely changed anything I felt about the world. People today seem the same as they did in high school, they are just older. My parents don't show up every time I make a decision, nor do I let them decide anything about my life. If a guy bad mouths you, I usually invite my big brothers over. That works real well. Although it give me an idea of why some guy bad mouth women, because they don't bad mouth men. I do think people impose alot of things onto themselves when they get married. I do think we marry people who are totally different from us, and that we project what we would like them to be, sort of like dressing up a doll. We have a tendency to see the nice suit or dress before we even see the stranger under neath. Bill Joel has a song called "The Stranger" Great song. What bugs us when we are dating will bug us when we are married. I'm sort of a Weird Al fan myself, I love Archeology, I am an engineer, have grown kids. I really love kids alot. I'm far to domesticated. Speaking of this. It's pretty hard to feel sexy with so much domesticity around. I think women forget themselves when they marry and try and please everyone else. No wonder they feel overloaded. Men too. I think we get into the roles the world expects of us. Sort of in our head. No balance. Women nag because they think they are not being heard. They are overloaded with too many problems. They get the idea Mr. Prince Charming can relieve all of that, until they find out the next guy was no better than the last. Most of the problems we have are about our society, the ever changing Monster that dictates all our actions.