Hey there Demoralized , Keep that chin up!!! As we both know there are days from hell where just to breathe is a struggle. But we are looking forward to a brighter day. Divorce is slow painful process, Mine has been going on for over a year. I had to change attorneys because the first wasn't didn't seem to be helping me at all. He was always ready to agree with my stbx's attorney. My husband's attonery called for a continuance as soon as he learned I had a new attorney. I am sure that my stbx thought he was walking with everything until I hired a new attorney. At first I was angry with God, because I had prayed for help on which attorney to choose, But now I realize that it is actually working in my favor because my stbx's attorney is having to do a lot back treading and in the processes is exposing my stbx's screw ups. God send after all!

Demoralize your pain is described in your title. My hope is that you have gotten an attorney because your stbx is trying to take away all the assets. My husband of 26 years left me for a girl as old as our oldest daughter, sick. They are currently living in the house we were building for retirement. I aso know the pain of a husband who aways critizes. And the sadness that surrounds everything. But I have learned that I have to move on and if I wallow in sadness my ex will slowly manuever all the asest to him and his slut. Your may have to go into debt to get an attorney, I had to. Remember you and your stbx are at war until the judges gravel pounds. There are little battle over marital stuff until the court date. Meanness does occur. My stbx has shocked me on his cruelity and indifference to our children. A cheater is a deceiver and a deceiver will lie about everything. Be careful

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