Hi and thank you for your comment on my wall. Things are just bad right now. His big thing is that now he's telling me that his affair had nothing to do with him asking me for a divorce -- that even if he hadn't met Miriam he would have divorced me. Boy that sure makes me feel good, but then that's his thing to verbally and emotionally abuse me so there are no outward marks. He thinks he's just being honest but I see it as trying to make himself feel like a big man. So emotionally I am hurting again. If I could just stay mad at him instead of being hurt I would be a lot better off. Glad you got some shopping done, I haven't even started yet and I need to send stuff from Illinois to Colorado. thanks again for your kind words.

Today it snowed in here! (Virginia). I love the snow and I love Virginia because we have all four seasons. I went Christmas shopping and Lord only knows how much I hate shopping, let alone Christmas shopping. Found some good deals even though I'm one not to go from store to store looking for the best deal.. because I hate to shop. Anyhoo.. my daughter is coming home in a week from college. Not that she'll be around much except that she does work at my workplace so I'll see her then. Oh... P.S. gas in my area is $1.69 a gallon! Is that a hoot or what.

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