I hope Florida is nice at x-mas time, I've decited to there to get away from it all. Sorry to here that you have gone through what I have recently been. I wouldn't want it to happen to anyone.

Can use your help.. I am 41 an going thru adivorce. I cought he cheacting x 3 with a man that is still married an lives out of state. He has yet to tell his wife.. My problem is x 2.. 1. How do I get over the loss / miss of my child. I am in a trick bag because I can not move closer to her due to work. Also she has a medical condition that I am better trained for. I made a vist at her school today an found out the medical in the area an I am not on the contact list if problems arise. 2. Next I really want to wreck the other person life by letting his wife no what this F he did an was up to........

Hi. You write quite a bit in here. I am married 33 years, found out my wife had an affair for 2 years and when confronted on the phone she immediately flew to NC to be with her 62 year old boyfriend. She is 51 and I am 53. I have never had sex with any other woman. This betrayal was huge and I shared the 15000 emails with my boys/men (25, 27, 29). As a result I have the support of my boys. This guy is very wealthy having a string of bed/brek lodges. She is living the life of Scarlett Ohara from "gone with the wind". I live in Edmonton, Canada and she always wanted the warm climate.....3200km away. I am retired and write articles for newspapers around the world. Sometimes they buy them If they are good. If they are not, well I wasted my time. Famous columnists have sources and that is what I am considered as been. Anyway we had a great life but on Jan. 20 my world changed. Suicide thoughts, anger, crying, forgiveness and now I want a divorce. My lawyer has them drawn up but I cannot get my hand to sign them. I am writing you as you write quite a bit and you are a moderator and I am not sure what that means. I would love to read your response to my letter. Divorce is hell and I have empathy for those who go through it. I enjoy and benefit from comments frome experienced people as yourself. Pleas consider me as I am in great despair. Kev