Hi, I am going down momof4illinois friends list and asking everyone if they have heard anything from her. There is a concern if she is okay or not. If you have heard from her or about her, can you let others know. People on d360 are very concern. Thanks, chris

Chino, Well if you are crazy, I would hazard a guess the rest of us are too. I think it is grieving. It seems weird to call it that when nobody died but an important relationship died, what we had with that person died and yet they are still here to torment us, at least when you have kids and have to deal with them still because of the kids. It gets easier. I am sure when you started this whole process (found out) you had pretty much all bad days, now you have good days and bad days, then it will be good days and bad moments. It takes time and I hated hearing that, I wanted to hurry up and feel better but we have to take the steps, some take them faster than others but we can't skip over them or we won't heal. Hang in there!

Hey, you will be okay just take breath calmly at all times, kinda focuses the mind. If necessary get a big old glass of water and drink it very slowly. It's the little things that will help trust me - I am so glad I don't have to tie my shoes for work. Vent anytime you need/want/can. Be well.