Hello I am Kev and I read some of your posts which reveal an attitude I desire. An attitude has an emotional component and yours was indeed to take charge of the matter. I am sure you know but it is important to look after your health, exercise. Be busy so as not to think so much. Seek counseling? Love is a form of energy and we all need it. We all want perfect relationships in an imperfect world. Concentrate, even keep a journal and visualize where you will be in 6 months or a year. You will be surprized. You will become stronger and wiser. I have only started this strange journey and donot know where it will lead. I have only talked with my wife for 1 hour since Jan.20. I hope to meet with her soon to find out what she is thinking. Please write me,as I can benefit from your words, but donot feel obligated to respond. Kev.

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Oh yeah I like the Dixie Chicks too!! Love that song they have - not ready to make nice--describes me and the ex!! :) I also like Carrie Underwood's when he cheats and another good one (it's r&b song) by Jasmine Sullivan called "Bust Your Windows"!! Good one!! :)